Brad left for tour a week ago, kicking and screaming (and I mean that almost literally). He’s recently developed a severe phobia of flying- and add to that the fact that it’s been ages since he’s been on tour, so he’s grown a little too comfortable being at home and didn’t want to go “back to work”. I lovingly shoved him out of the car at the airport, told him to go earn a goddamn paycheck- and it’s been me and Sully flying solo. I’ve got no problems doing the single-mom-thing while Brad is away (I did it before Brad was in the picture, so I slip back into that role with ease). And there are perks- like less Man-mess infiltrating my clean home. But this month was a pretty shitty month for Brad to go earn his paycheck.
He had to leave a few days before Sully’s birthday- which Brad was BUMMED about. And in 2 days, Sully’s school year ends and then it’s a couple weeks of “what the fuck am I going to do with this kid while I’m at work!!” stress. But my parents (being the AMAZING people that they are) are coming out for a week to hang with the little fella while I work- so that lightens my load considerably. And the folks are coming into town just in time for Sully’s “Graduation”.
Here’s where the title of this little posting comes into play. Sully is moving from the 5th grade into the 6th grade. As proud of him as I am that he survived another year of existing in the academic world- does this really warrant a “graduation”???
This is one of the MANY examples of why the youth of our country are growing up to be spoiled lazy brats- and things like this drive me fucking batty. Going from the 5th to the 6th grade is not a ceremonious accomplishment… it is a social expectation. Ceremonies are supposed to be special things, marking a major life accomplishment, or a rite of passage. Graduating from high school is the embarking of adulthood. Graduating from college is the beginning of new major life paths and the celebration of a difficult accomplishment. Weddings, funerals, birthdays, baby showers, etc… these are all ritualistic ceremonies that celebrate the beginning or finalizing of different important stages in life.
The problem is when we start having ceremonies for simple and expected behavior, then nothing is sacred anymore. When children are praised, rewarded, and put on a pedestal for doing things that are simply expected of them- then why work harder for that higher goal? Kids are SUPPOSED to move from the 5th to the 6th grade. This isn’t something that deserves a fucking ceremony- it’s something that a kid should just DO. We’re not supposed to shit our pants, either… so should I get a round of applause every time I don’t shit my pants? No… because I’m EXPECTED to not shit my pants. But it’s cute to dress our kids up in little hats and robes, and it’s precious to parade them across a stage and give them little computer-print-out diplomas and make a little event out of it. But in reality, it’s celebrating the mundane- and tainting the specialness of REAL accomplishments that are deserving of a ceremony. And what it teaches our kids is that all they have to do is the bare minimum- and they’ll get a fucking party. Total bullshit.
But yes… I’m attending Sully’s little “graduation” because it would be ultra shitty of me to be the only parent not there because I see the ridiculousness of it all. But no, we’re no making a big thing of it, or inviting all the family, or having a party afterwards. When he graduates from high school and college- both of those will be deserving of festivities. But moving on to the 6th grade? Gimme a break. This is deserving of a special “end of the school year” trip to the ice cream parlor…. NOT a god damn ceremony.
On a lighter note… there are 2 gallery shows that I’m currently in that if you’re in the neighborhood you should go and check out. First is the current exhibit at the Strychnin Gallery in Berlin, Germany titled “Midsummer’s Night Madness”. It opened a couple days ago, and there are TONS of artists that participated. You can check out pics of the opening night on their official blog HERE.
The second show I’m in is in Brooklyn at the Eastern District. The show is titled “Plenty of Room on the Couch”, and again there are TONS of artists in this show. AND all the pieces in the show are under $300!!! I’m super giggly about this show because my pieces are in another show with the diabolical Steve Smith– a glorious fella and amazingly talented artist that I’ve had a show with before (and we’ve been aching to show together again). Click on his highlighted name above and check out the wonderful things he does.
Finally… I’m doing oodles of “Tinys” drawings again. If you’re unfamaliar with these little guys, they are drawings no bigger than 3 inches by 3 inches. They come framed in tiny ornate frames- and they make me giggle. I’ve got a few on the webstore– and there are more to come. Here’s a couple of these little guys…..
Tiny Oops! There goes my hand!
Tiny Hauntings
That’s all the love I’ve got to give for tonight. Off to vaccume the house, and make some cookies for my folks arrival tomorrow afternoon, then more drawing drawing drawing.
Go-Go-Gadget hugs to you all!
Tags: art, drawing, exhibits, Gallery shows, Steve Smith, Strychnin Gallery
